Here’s what it boils down to:

1.) Men say women go into way too much details about their past relationships. Men don’t want to hear it, even if they ask you to tell them.

2.) Women talk about all the bad things every man did to her. Men hate it when a woman blames them for what some jerk before them did to her.

3.) Women have a chip on their shoulder about men and carries a bit of anger toward all men simply because they’re men.

4.) Women lack some or all the qualities he’s looking for. A woman’s list is usually very long whereas a man’s list is short. For example, if a man is looking for that special woman and his list contains four items, if one item is missing, that’s one-quarter of what he needs. If it’s missing, he’s gone without explanation. As painful as this may sound, it’s true!

5.) She has sex too soon. Yes most men want to get a woman into bed as soon as possible. But if a woman he’s really interested in has sex with him too soon, he quits calling because he figures if she did it with him so easily then . . . .

It’s a double standard of course but this is what men are saying. This list may not be an exhaustive one but hopefully it sheds some light on why men do the frustrating things they do.  

To ensure your phone number remains in his speed dial remember these reasons and you will be ahead of the game.